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Fate and fear

Fate is not yet to come, and we always want to have best of our lives. We did, we do, or sometimes we fail. Speaking of failing, reasons can be anything, maybe because of what we did or things outside us we can't control. Worst feeling could come from something beyond our control. Maybe it's about other person or what had given to us since we were born.

Fear is something that we can't deny and we never invite to come. Fear of losing, fear of pain, fear if failing, fear of being denied, fear of being not perfect. Fear of ..., or maybe you have your own term of fear?

Fate and fear. Fear is good, fear is a friend. It's a natural signal given to us what to be concerned in order to be perfect in our terms, ideal, like we've planned.

But, no.

Being human is being not perfect. Fear shows us how 'human' we are. But, nobody's perfect. Cliche.

If, the world is perfect we wont find pretty and ugly people. No more smart guys and idiots. Maybe we never heard such things as lies? Police and thieves stories might sounds almost as impossible as extra-terrestrial.

No more sick people, no more school, girls won't need high heels and pretty dresses, no more struggle and hard work since everyone is qualified of being perfect. Same standard. Would you say it's boring? I would.

Nothing left to remember since nothing different enough to be remembered. And, no values for memories. We wouldn't be much different from robots. Working on the same thing continously without stopping and complaining.

Then, what's worth for being human? Tomorrow has not come yet. There are uncountable possibilities and permutations in math for things to happen. And what'll happen is not always about bad things. Are we too busy worrying, being fear of fate that have not proved bad? What if it's a good one?

Fate, only God knows why. He kept His secrets alone, maybe it's His surprises. We do loves surprises, right?

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